July 17, 2007
Help me! my love for a female?
im born as a girl.in an Indian family.during my childhood,parents used to fight and I grew up hating my dad,when my mum was pregnant with me.she thought I would be a baby boy,.she wished so.but I was born as girl.and I resembled my dad.when I was kid, she used to dress me like a boy and I tend to play with boys games.now that I have grown, I don’t exhibit any feminism..im always dressed in jeans and tee..
- I do have feminine voice etc.im tall and big built.
- WOW, that's long!
Hon, I would suggest you get some professional counseling to help you explore your gender identity and sexuality. You seem very confused and not too many here have the expertise to help properly. - Wow, where do I start? Hmm, let's see. First off you need to figure out who you are. You cannot do anything until you understand the feelings that you are having or what you may or may not be. In reading your entire passage you never once said that you were a lesbian or bisexual, you are somehow under the impression that you are a guy trapped in a female's body. This is not so, because this generally doesn't happen. Some women are born with more male hormones than there are supposed to have, this may lead them to feel that they are a man trapped in a females body, but this isn't so. I don't suggest counseling, because then your parents will be involved, I suggest soul searching and prayer. This will help you and most definitely give you guidance.
- Well, I found a similarity between your mother and my mother. My mother wanted a girl when I was born and she says so all the time. Your mother wanted a boy. I feel that I'm trapped in a boy's body but like girls clothes but I'm not gay. You r also like me. May be we are who we are because of our mothers wanted a baby of the other gender.
Well, as of the relationship, I'd says go for it. After all you will regret not telling her later than telling her and the society not accepting you. As long as you guys love each other I don't think the thinking of the society does matter.
Well, I personally think that india is a better country to have a gay relationship or being a crossdresser (like I am) than were I live.
hope you have a good future with this girl. - I recently developed some feelings for a girl..whom,im falling with everyday.
- In a large city , you will be able to find women who love women . Once you find this community , ask your friend to join you there .
- later she had another boyfren,whom she hid frm me..and even had physical things like french kiss etc,with him..but they broke up,due to unknown reasons.
- I often feel im a guy trapped in a girl’s body.I like sportive and man clothing, but don’t dare to buy or wear them.my mum scolds me often, saying I don’t behave like a girl. I don’t do house chores like an Indian girl should.true, I don’t do it.im excellent in studies, but I hate house chores.it angers me when I see there are a lot of rape cases etc.I hate men for that reason that they abuse women.
- im hating life. I really wish im a guy. I can propose, marry her and keep her happy..
- she asked me to live for my beliefs and values. while im persistent to live for her?
- Being a bisexual Iranian woman isn't so easy, as well.
I constantly hide my desires because I don't want to shame my family…even though I don't think there isn't anything shameful about it.
Hang on to the rational side of your mind. This girl who has fascinated you, will most likely never approve of this type of love. Give yourself some personal time away from her, so that you can straighten things out. Find a lesbian community and bond with those who can relate to you. - she often scolds me, but these few days, she said she has learned to appreciate my presence in her life. and she said she would be good with me.
- we are good frens and she is in love with my guy fren..but they separated.
- Hi, I don't think you should try to date your friend. I looks like yall have a very good relationship and that could mess it up.
As far as you thinkin' you're gay, well if you believe in God then you would feel me on this one. The devil tries and tries to get us. He knows he going to hell so he's trying to take everyone he can with him. You was born a girl, that's what God wants you to be. What God says is over what your parents says. I know they wanted you to be a boy but you're not. That just means they have some issues they need to take up with theirselves. I also think their action have caused you to be a bit confused and the devil is taking advantage of that. Your confusion= deceit for the devil. That's how he starts messing with you. I think you should just pray about it (REALLY PRAY) and God will help you. He never gives us too much to handle and we have to remember that. He loves us. Where there is temptation there is always an escape but we have to find it and use it. Don't give up and let the devil make you think you was born this way and that being gay is okay because its not.
I'm against homosexuallity but I don't dislike gay people. I have gay friends and I just know a lot of gay people but I dont' think it's right. God love me and I sin everyday so I'm not going to hate anybody for being gay. So don't think I'm the type of person who don't understand at all what you're going through cause I have a little understanding of what you're going through.
At the same time we can't allow the devil to use and confuse us. - I feel a lot for her n I often confront her to tell me things hoping I could provide with some comfort.she recently told me that she was molested by a relative when she was 4.I felt sorry.I buy her things that she needs and spare my cash.
- she wud chat wit me everyday n tell me things.
- im not sure whats her term of "good" but I have a strong desire to spend the rest of my life wit her.I have told her that I love her. but no response. she just accepted the sms..
- but I know she won’t want a relationship with me. or be with me.
- I know that because female-female love is unacceptable in the Asians society.
- I don’t think he loves me as much I do..
- I feel women should be protected.at the same time, I always feel I should have been born as a guy.im certain that if I were guy would be a good one.
- she has some probs at home, therefore I often be her shoulder to cry on. but most of the times she hides her feels and suffers alone.
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