She is soooo gorgeous. She is sort of tall, with a full, soft hourglass body, cat-like blue eyes, very long blonde hair… And she dresses like a very sexy, very sophisticated goth (that's what she is).

1. And when she walks down a street, every male head turns in her direction. If I'm talking to a guy who I like and who I usually get on great with, he will completely ignore me and his attention will be 100% on her, even though she is happily engaged and doesn't flirt blatantly with other men.
2. Talk to her… ask her to help u w/ self confidence…. I dont' think she would mind helping since she's engaged. She probably had a time when she felt ignored by. Good Luck!!!!
3. short, skinny, dark = ingredients for a attractive girl to me. hit me up some time
4. You sound as though you yourself are in love with her. I'm sure that she doesn't mean to drink up everybodies attention, but I also know how bad it hurts being the friend hidden in the shadows. I have a couple of friends who are sort of the same way. They are bright beautiful creatures that God decided to bless with charisma, and allow them to make more of a statement. My advice for you is to do something for yourself to raise your self-esteem. That's what this comes down to. You are not confident enough to be around your friend. You feel very negative about yourself which is going to present yourself negatively. You need to do things for yourself that make you feel the way you see your friend. Go take a belly dancing class or get a job where you are the center of al ot of peoples attention, then open yourself up. Let who you are shine through and overcome all your feelings of doubt. If you feel confident and portray that feeling, you will be able to capture peoples attention. I should know I've been through the same thig. YOu just have to find yourself.
5. introduce me to first you then her
6. forget her.
7. (?) am jealous & insecure of my gorgeous best friend…?
   she is soooo gorgeous. She is sort of tall, with a full, soft hourglass body, cat-like blue eyes, very long blonde hair… And she dresses like a very sexy, very sophisticated goth (that's what she is).

   (!!)Just not fair on your part. Be happy you have a friend like that.

   (?)And when she walks down a street, every male head turns in her direction. If I'm talking to a guy who I like and who I usually get on great with, he will completely ignore me and his attention will be 100% on her, even though she is happily engaged and doesn't flirt blatantly with other men.

   (!!)She desrves what she gets.Isn't it?

   (?)They just fall over themselves and completely ignore me. I on the other hand am short, ugly, skinny, dark and pretty much easy to ignore. They laugh at her jokes that aren't funny, and when I say something, it's like I'm talking to a brick wall.

   (!!) Don't you realise your shortcomings?

   (?)I am so jealous of her and she makes me feel so insecure but she is a wonderful person and I cannot hate her… What do I do to build my self-confidence, in the shadow of this goddess all the time?

   (!!)Just be confident and you will find your guy one day.
   Try to improve your IQ as much as you can.

   WISH YOU GOOD LUCK!

8. never put yourself down and every man does not go for the same type give your self time you will meet the right guy
9. Take heart lady.the truth is that all woman can be the same.But the only thing I have to say is that you should learn to love yourself for who you are and what can do.Remember learning to love yourself is the greatest love of all.Your friend no matter her beauty can be you.Takecare.
10. Maybe you should try going out and trying to meet new people by yourself or with other friends. That way you can see the good qualities in you without feeling totally let-down by your friend. There are plenty of people out there who would prefer you to your best friend… you just need to find them yourself.
    Good luck!
11. First off, to look and appear beautiful in front of men, you need to be self confident in yourself. You have to convince yourself that you are beautiful and then, more people will also feel the same way.

    There is no way you can change who you are and your friend is not doing anything to try to hurt you. Then people that ignore you to pay attention to her only are not true friends. True friends or guys that truly like you for who you are will not ignore you. Most likely, you just haven't found him yet.

    No need to be jealous. Be yourself and someone for you will come along. If you want, talk to her as well. As you guys are best friends and a wonderful person, she can probably also try to help. Just remember, everyone is beautiful. Just in different ways.

12. don't know, us good looking women always keep a dog around to pose in cute matching clothing/ maybe she got you instead after all you are house broken right?
13. Try going out without her.
14. if they push you aside try to push back in but don't seem like a wannabe…if she is talking about a funny thing that happened over the weekend make up something even funnier and have the guys focus on you. if that doesn't work, ask her for a makeover..if she's your best friend you can talk to her and tell her how you feel and maybe she could help you blossom into the gorgeous swan you are..
15. stop being negative towards yourself and focus on all the good qualities about yourself, I am sure that there's wonderful guy out there for you.
16. Why don't you go out by yourself? Find your own man? You haven't found a man who looks at a persons personality at most. Plus, going alone and spotting guys will boost your confidence because she isn't there. Guys who will look at her while you're talking to them are jerks. Don't spend time with those type. You deserve better than that. Every woman does.

    Good Luck!

17. Make a list of all the quailties about yorself that you like. Then maybe go out and buy a new outfit that you look really good in and then wear it. If you think you look good, everyone else will know it.
18. hey girl wht's up with u…u are calling her a Godess..u are the one who is overestimating her, even though she is like that!!
    u must know that how much she is beautiful, there's always who is much prettier than her…and guys are ignorant, they get attracted easily by looks and sexy bodies!

    just try to concentrate that she is your friend, and if she is good to u, then mayeb u should look at the bright sides, and show yourself a little bit more.

    and if u are going on to meet some new guys or ppl, there' no need to take her with u if u want some attention!

    do some make overs, and be sexy girl…cos I am damn sure u ain't ugly as u call yourself!

19. my best friend used to be like that, tall,slender big boobs and a good ***.I know exactly how u feel. but the only way u can get through thisis to start liking yourself and everything about you and maybe sexing yourself up a bit if that helps. I used to be so jelous of my best friends beauty, but when they pass away u realise there is more to life than looks and guys staring at u.all they think about is sex anyway! and if a guy's attention is not n u, he is not worth it. good luck, I know ull b just fine!
20. we all have friends that make us feel that way
    im sure u r gorgeous, u will meet someone one day that will b interested in you and not her
    try to go out without her sometimes, see if u feel better
    good luck
21. Jealosy will get you nowhere..You need to work on your insecurites before you dig yourself a hole you can't get out of..Try to do thing's to better yourself get a new hair cut get your nails done when you look good you will feel better about yourself..Best Wishes..
22. I have the same problem…just meet men without her, one day there will be somebody who will like you more because of your great personality.
23. theres a sayin jealousy is a terrible disease……if u feel that way then tell her how u feel and try to say to urself the things u like bout urself except for worrying bout her and wat the ppl thinking bout her..
24. just because ur dark it doesn't make u ugly. there are alot of men who love dark skin women. y don't u try going out with out her and fix urself up. u have to have something thta stands out like ur eyes, lips,etc. if so do something to enchance them and tell urself I'm cute! walk with confidence and smile more. no offense but ur black and she's white so she's pretty in a white girl way but out of the two of u u can be pretty in a black girl way so pull out the brands like ecko, babyphat, southpole. girl fix urself up okay get ur hair done and nails whatever u need. it may b hard to not feel insecure when u feel bad about urself already so try to think in a different light
25. I am so jealous of her and she makes me feel so insecure but she is a wonderful person and I cannot hate her… What do I do to build my self-confidence, in the shadow of this goddess all the time?
26. I'm sure you are gorgeous too you just gotta realize it. I read that pretty girls only hang out with other pretty girls. maybe it wouldn't be a bad idea to go out with a friend that didn't make you feel that way just for a little while; it would get your confidence up and when you feel beautiful you are beautiful. I was a little concerned when you put dark on your 'bad qualities' why on earth would you be unhappy with having dark skin. would you rather be pale like a white girl with every blue vein showing through? lol. girl, you sound adorable and like lots of fun, and sorry but your friend sounds a little boring. Personally I think some new clothes would go a long way. lol go shopping and get some confidence.
27. Well you look very sexy to me
28. They just fall over themselves and completely ignore me. I on the other hand am short, ugly, skinny, dark and pretty much easy to ignore. They laugh at her jokes that aren't funny, and when I say something, it's like I'm talking to a brick wall.
29. I understand how you feel and it's a natrually reaction what you feel. first, just learn to appreciate her as your best friend. think this way: wow, I am so lucky to have such beatiful humanbeing as my best friend. it's good to look at an item like that all the time. 2nd. learn how to dress up yourself like her or learn some tips from her how to make yourself pretty. a lot of the time, it's how you dress yourself more than your original look. I have seen many not so great looking girls look fabulous with little touches of make up, accessories and clothes that fit them make them very attractive. 3rd. don't bring her along when you're trying to hook up with a guy. you don't have to be secretive or leave her behind kinda thing. but just find opportunity to get to know guys on your own first before you introduce her to them. so they get to know you who you are rather than your looks. 4th, stop comparing you and her. I am sure you're good at something she's not so good at. focus on your strength and work on your weakness. esp. develop a good personality that everybody appreciates! a great social skill goes far and stays with you forever. once you have that, you'll build up some confidence. it comes with maturity and morality also. good luck!

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