To make a long story short, I'm a 24 year old male and I've never even been on a single date. I can't seem to get girls to like me in that way. The running joke in my family is that I'll never get married and my sister always jokes that I didn't "really" go to college since I had absolutely no social life during those years.

1. I suspected the reason for my misfortune was that I was ugly. I've had a few male "friends" (I don't really like them) tell me that I look "scary" and that they'd be scared of me if we were not buddies. I'm definitely not fat, so it isn't that… I'm 6ft, ~180lbs and I have a fairly athletic build. I used to work out a lot and I played sports in highschool. So if it isn't my body, it must be my face, right? So I tried placing photos of myself on hotornot.com. I was surpsied that the ratings for my two photos were 8.7 and 9.2. The most frequent ratings in each score distribution was 7 and 8 respectively.
2. I think it also might be your personality. are you really shy? maybe you should try and approach a girl, make some small talk or something. how sad, your friends say you look scary? if you look anything like your avatar, I wouldn't think so. =]
3. if its not your looks, it must be your personality…girls put a lot of emphasis on personality.. are you sure you were not writing some stupid crap to these women. if you sound desperate thats an immedeate deal breaker.
4. The women may just feel that they don't connect with you even if the websites seem to think that they do. And remember that looks aren't everything. Yes, they are a factor, but there's more to a relationship than just physical attraction.

   However, if you'd like an unbiased opinion regarding whether or not I find you attractive, then e-mail me. I'm not at home right now though and I don't have Yahoo Messenger at work. Do you have a Myspace page?

5. It might not be your looks but your personality.. Remember looks are not EVERYTHING! You need to remember that girls don't go out with you just because your cute but that they like your qualities like your funny or romantic.
6. While these scores made me feel a little better, I wonder if these votes are real or if women are voting me high out of pity? I can't be certain.

   So I decided to try eHarmony and created a profile. For those that aren't aware, the eHarmony system matches people based on personality tests. The system will periodically send you new "matches" and you can either "close" the match or attempt to communicate. What I'm noticing is that most girls are opting to "close" communication with me after the system matches us. They are "closing" me without any contact between us! They just see my profile & pictures and close.

   So whats the deal here? Do women just find me ugly? I wish I could have a romantic relationship like everyone else and I get really lonely from time to time. My yahoo messenger name is magnificent_bumba, im me if you want to see a pic.

7. my SN on yahoo messenger = magnificent_bumba

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