To make a long story short, I'm a 24 year old male and I've never even been on a single date. I can't seem to get girls to like me in that way. The running joke in my family is that I'll never get married and my sister always jokes that I didn't "really" go to college since I had absolutely no social life during those years.

1. I suspected the reason for my misfortune was that I was ugly. I've had a few male "friends" (I don't really like them) tell me that I look "scary" and that they'd be scared of me if we were not buddies. I'm definitely not fat, so it isn't that… I'm 6ft, ~180lbs and I have a fairly athletic build. I used to work out a lot and I played sports in highschool. So if it isn't my body, it must be my face, right? So I tried placing photos of myself on hotornot.com. I was surpsied that the ratings for my two photos were 8.7 and 9.2. The most frequent ratings in each score distribution was 7 and 8 respectively.
2. I wouldn't use E-Harmony if I were you, most of the interesting people out there get rejected when they take that personality test that is required to join. Other dating sites can be similar. And I doubt anyone for give you a 'pity vote' on hotornot.com, they most likely actually like the picture.

   The reason you get rejected may have nothing to do with your looks at all, maybe you don't project enough confidence, maybe something you wrote in your profile? I can't really say because I don't know you.

3. If you want to see a pic, IM me on yahoo instant messenger

   SN = magnificent_bumba

4. While these scores made me feel a little better, I wonder if these votes are real or if women are voting me high out of pity? I can't be certain.

   So I decided to try eHarmony and created a profile. For those that aren't aware, the eHarmony system matches people based on personality tests. The system will periodically send you new "matches" and you can either "close" the match or attempt to communicate. What I'm noticing is that most girls are opting to "close" communication with me after the system matches us. They are "closing" me without any contact between us! They just see my profile & pictures and close.

   So whats the deal here? Do women just find me ugly? I wish I could have a romantic relationship like everyone else and I get really lonely from time to time. My yahoo messenger name is magnificent_bumba, im me if you want to see a pic.

5. hey im sorry about that man I feel ya
   maybe you should try some other sites, I didnt really have any success with e harmony either or true or singlesnet for that matter
   I like mate1 the best, and ive even meet a few great people from there, u can sign up at http://www.ideal-info.com/mate1.php…
   good luck

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