To make a long story short, I'm a 24 year old male and I've never even been on a single date. I can't seem to get girls to like me in that way. The running joke in my family is that I'll never get married and my sister always jokes that I didn't "really" go to college since I had absolutely no social life during those years.

1. I suspected the reason for my misfortune was that I was ugly. I've had a few male "friends" (I don't really like them) tell me that I look "scary" and that they'd be scared of me if we were not buddies. I'm definitely not fat, so it isn't that… I'm 6ft, ~180lbs and I have a fairly athletic build. I used to work out a lot and I played sports in highschool. So if it isn't my body, it must be my face, right? So I tried placing photos of myself on hotornot.com. I was surpsied that the ratings for my two photos were 8.7 and 9.2. The most frequent ratings in each score distribution was 7 and 8 respectively.
2. While these scores made me feel a little better, I wonder if these votes are real or if women are voting me high out of pity? I can't be certain.

   So I decided to try eHarmony and created a profile. For those that aren't aware, the eHarmony system matches people based on personality tests. The system will periodically send you new "matches" and you can either "close" the match or attempt to communicate. What I'm noticing is that most girls are opting to "close" communication with me after the system matches us. They are "closing" me without any contact between us! They just see my profile & pictures and close.

   So whats the deal here? Do women just find me ugly? I wish I could have a romantic relationship like everyone else and I get really lonely from time to time. My yahoo messenger name is magnificent_bumba, im me if you want to see a pic.

3. You lack self-confidence, but you have many great attributes to offer a lady. Use what you have! You're smart, able to express yourself well, educated, and from all you've said, a nice guy. I'm not the best looking guy in the world myself, but I utilize what I have been given. Use your brain to make a good impression on women, and your caring…..in short, USE what you've been given! Good Luck! Re-write your profile, and try again from a different approach.
4. omg…ugly is a state of mind. also "ugly" can be remedied in this day and age. if there is something that can be corrected, instead of spending money on these hook-up sites, why don't you invest in your face?

   I don't think its your face though, you're probably just shy.

5. u r confident I m glad dude . surely u deserve a gr8 gf wait 4 some time I m sure u will not only have 1 but many
6. you should have posted a pic..but maybe they have met someone else and thats why they close you..however you sound really intelligent maybe you need to be more confident and just yourself to women face to face in real life. go up and make a conversation ask them out on a date. good luck
7. I encourage all the women about to feel sorry for this guy and give him heart felt advise check the questions he has asked in the past.
   Some of them mention a wife.
   Others ask about porn.
   One even says "who cares about the Virginia Tech killings"
   He asks about being rejected on eharmany and his hotornot ratings 12 times.
   The guy has issues.
   BEWARE
8. idk some people r just mean like that . but one day u just will find the right girl 4 u .I am in a simular situation but the guys woun t tak 2 me cause I an ugly and I am only 14 but I am not going 2 give up cause tomarrow I just might find the right guy 4 me and u just might find the right girl 4 u tomarrow 2 well I wish u luck …
9. IM me if you want my pic. I'm on yahoo instant messenger. SN = magnificent_bumba

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