To make a long story short, I'm a 24 year old male and I've never even been on a single date. I can't seem to get girls to like me in that way. The running joke in my family is that I'll never get married and my sister always jokes that I didn't "really" go to college since I had absolutely no social life during those years.

1. I suspected the reason for my misfortune was that I was ugly. I've had a few male "friends" (I don't really like them) tell me that I look "scary" and that they'd be scared of me if we were not buddies. I'm definitely not fat, so it isn't that… I'm 6ft, ~180lbs and I have a fairly athletic build. I used to work out a lot and I played sports in highschool. So if it isn't my body, it must be my face, right? So I tried placing photos of myself on hotornot.com. I was surpsied that the ratings for my two photos were 8.7 and 9.2. The most frequent ratings in each score distribution was 7 and 8 respectively.
2. I don't know why you are being rejected. And I don't know whether or not I think you're "ugly" since I don't know what you look like.
3. If you seriously wanted an answer you'd have supplied a picture. I can only conclude that this is a joke.
4. umm I feel sorry for ya.
5. Dude! Take down your picture. Get to know these women and vice-versa first. Then exchange pics thru personal email if it gets to that stage. Posting yourself up there lets every woman pass by you if she wants. Put interesting stuff on there about you and let them get interested in YOU.

   If a woman asks for your picture, give it to her on her email. Nothing weird or nasty. Just a nice recent picture. Ask for one from her at the same time if she is not posting one already.

   Many people put fake pictures of themselves up on websites. You may feel like you have to put your picture up to get hits, but you dont.

   Good luck.

6. Let's see a picture….I will be honest.

   You said it isnt encouraging when only 5'5" 200 lbs. women contact you, well that is your problem right there. You want to be into looks, but the woman can't. I think your problem is your attitude.

7. post up a pic and I'll give you an honest answer.
8. Maybe its your attitude? or maybe u r just really ugly……..no offence. But I dunno cuz I havent seen a pic of you.
9. cuz u gavnt found ur "soulmate" yet. look 4 oppposites and similar ppl
10. I used to use yahoo personals, which has a more open picking service, and it did take a while to meet some good matches. The biggest hurdle was a proper first message. I'm not sure about eharmony, but with yahoo (and probably others) you can message them and try to catch their interests, so find someone with like interest and go from there. Don't come on too strong though. it definately takes some committment to gain some good use though.
11. I would have to see a picture to answer this question, honestly.
    if you have one feel free to email me.
12. While these scores made me feel a little better, I wonder if these votes are real or if women are voting me high out of pity? I can't be certain.

    So I decided to try eHarmony and created a profile. For those that aren't aware, the eHarmony system matches people based on personality tests. The system will periodically send you new "matches" and you can either "close" the match or attempt to communicate. What I'm noticing is that most girls are opting to "close" communication with me after the system matches us. They are "closing" me without any contact between us! They just see my profile & pictures and close.

    So whats the deal here? Do women just find me ugly? I wish I could have a romantic relationship like everyone else and I get really lonely from time to time.

    It's not encouraging when the only women to contact me on eHarmony and match.com are seriously 5-5 200+ lbs.

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