he is training for a bodybuilding show, and is practicing his poses, but he strips down to nothing but his underwear to look at himself in the mirror. he is in the regular room where all the work out equipment is at. there are women in there too that can see him. I think that this is disrespectful, to his WIFE, for a married man to wear only underwear in front of other women. (he has a nice body too, so some women probably will be looking at him for the wrong reasons) besides it is rude for him to do it anyway, because some women don't care to have to see a man in his underwear when they go to work out. I told him that I did not want him to do this anymore, but he told me that I need to get over it, because he is not gonna stop… and for me to get used to it. I would not mind him wearing shorts…..but not JUST underwear and nothing else. am I crazy for letting this bother me? I don't think that I am asking too much.

1. I am a personal trainer at a gym and I would tell him to put his clothes back on. There's no need for that at the gym and that's what the mirrors in the change room are for. You should just laugh at him because that just looks silly and self-absorbed. A lot of the other women are probably laughing too at how obsessed he is with his own body! Most women I talk to in the gym think that guys who pose in the mirror or wear revealing clothes ("man"-dex, short shorts and wife-beater t-shirts) are silly and they make fun of them. So I don't think you have too much to worry about on the cheating front.
2. dont be stupid!!
3. it's pretty common for body builders to wear pretty skimpy outfits, so it doesn't seem like he's doing it to cheat on you or pick up women or anything.

   I'd say you are over-reacting and it's no big deal.

   The other issue tho, is that he doesn't seem very receptive to your feelings. Feelings aren't always logical, so sometimes partners will make compromises like those that you ask, just to smooth over the relationship.

4. no let him go to the beach in his skinny little bathing outfit in front of thousands of women instead

   get a life

5. I think its funny but he sould just get some spandix to stop showing his cheek marks
6. No ur not!! But he most for sure is !!!!!!!
7. If he's in bodybuilding contests, underwear is practically all he will wear on stage. So, you will need to get over it or learn to deal with it. That aside, what gym allows him to wear only underwear in the middle of the gym while he poses?
8. Why should you be mad? If you know he loves you and you love him then you shouldn't worry about it because you know he's coming home to you and know body else…Just look at it like this…You have what other women want but can't have…and you should support him in what he does not be mad at what his job is and especially if it makes him happy at what he does…A Loving Wife should support her husband in what ever his career is no matter what the job maybe.
9. 2 years of working in a gym
10. if its the actual whitey tighty underwear then yea but if he was wearing those spedoos those body builders wear then no there not as see thru as the white undies…id prolly ask him if he could do that in the mens bathroom or at home.
11. The guy wants the people to look at him. It's a stroke to his ego to know others are checking him out. I am so sorry this guy seems to have very little respect for you if he isn't going to cover up a bit when he's not actually on stage.
12. well, yes and no. you should be mad at him for wearing underwear and public and embarrising himself, but you should'nt be mad at him for being around women when he wears them cause he's married and usually married men don't cheat.
13. don;t over react he comes home to you and doesn't hide the fact that he is married he is just comfortable.
14. Why don't you buy him a sexy swimsuit that he can pose in. Maybe you should go to the gym with him and hang out that way everyone knows that you are his wife and if no other women are hittin on him ba glad that he is yours and you get to take him home. I mean if that is the worst of your worries with your hubby you got it made. But if it is an obsession that he is having maybe he needs to reevaluate your relationship if he is saying get over it. That part is rude.
15. just point nd laugh =) works everytime
16. Body building is about looking at the body's build, not its clothing. What exactly do you expect? There are going to be men and women watching him at the competition, ya know.

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