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The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the buildings. So when I do dishes I face the sliding glass doors into the apartment next door. The sliding glass door faces the wall and seem to be the only windows in the tiny apt.
- I have seen my neighbor naked/dressing several times. He does have a privacy wall and does not face public property(so not considered indecent exposure). He is very nice and kind of cute, decent body with a little extra weight. But I feel bad cuz he has no natural light if he shuts the blinds and has no other room to chance since it is a bachelor style apt.
- maybe you should get yourself some net curtains or if you think he's kinda cute ask him out if your single then you can broach the subject about the fact you can see him or just be polite and tell him that you can see him from your window in passing but don't mention you saw him naked best of luck
- What should I do? I am not offended really. Would you say something to him? If so what? Is it wrong to just let it go and keep seeing him like that?
- Mention it to him, be like "I saw you the other day in your apartment." Kindly let him know that you can see directly inside. We ahve a sliding glas door in my home and our neighbors across the street can see right in. The best part is they saw my dad pretending to be Brittany Spears with his shirt tied up, his pants slid down on his hips and his doing some ridiculous dance. . . he decided we shoudl close the blinds now lol
- Its ok as long as you are enjoying what you are seeing!! lucky you!!!
- I would'nt. I would just admire with out him knowing it. hehehe enjoy it while it lasts. unless you have kids that might see his shame. then you might wanna say something in a nice way.
- Quityourb*tchin' and enjoy the show! *laughter*
- What is there for you to say? If you don't have a problem with it and you like to look just leave it at that.
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- Can see neighbor in apt……..what to do?
The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My is high enough to look over the concrete privicy wall between the buildings. So when I do dishes ...
- Naked neighbor…..what to do?
The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the build...
- Name this Arnold Schwarzenegger Movie?
In the first Arnold is in some medication or unconcious he is half nude. And we see lot of women fully naked in a pool of water.. followed by a stunt.. thats comes to be the beginning .. I h...
- Can see neighbor in apt……..what to do?
The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the build...
- How can I prepare for a hot-tub party?
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The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the buildings. So when I do dishes I face the sliding glass doors into the apartment next door. The sliding glass door faces the wall and seem to be the only windows in the tiny apt.
- I have seen my neighbor naked/dressing several times. He does have a privacy wall and does not face public property(so not considered indecent exposure). He is very nice and kind of cute, decent body with a little extra weight. But I feel bad cuz he has no natural light if he shuts the blinds and has no other room to chance since it is a bachelor style apt.
- If you don't want to see the view anymore, slide a note under his door and tell him anonymously that he has been seen nude and if you really want to stop it ask in the note if he has reached puberty yet.
- There IS no problem. You are not offended. relax—and if he's cute, enjoy!
You're not going to see anything new anymore, no point embarassing him, so just keep it to yourself.
- I say kick back, make a cup of coffee and enjoy the show!
- If it were me, I'd call up my friends and invite them over for a private screening of the show that he's offering.
How lucky can you be girl? With my luck, the guy I'd be looking over at would be 60 years old, 200 pounds overweight with a hairy pelt covering his back.
- First look the other way…next tell him to cover up his unit. finally explain he needs blinds…
- Just ignore it and don't tell him. Look away when you see him.
- he must be aware that there is a possibility that someone can see him… So just enjoy the view…
- You're a peeper and nobody has to know, good for you. You can't tell the man you're watching him dress, that's embarassing. Not everyone realizes others can see from outside. How about showing him yours and you'll be even?
- Perhaps one day when he is clothed and you can see him wave hi to him. Do this a few times over the course of a week. After while he may take notice that you can see him easily and he will also realize that you can see him nude too !
You could also one day when you see he has clothing on go over and ask to borrow something ( ketchup) Mention that " I could see you were home" motion toward your window ! hopefully that would give him the "hint"
Anyhow ,you say your place is brand new perhaps after a while you won't notice him as much. Try to not to develop a habit of noticing what he is doing. Also don't go showing him to your friends or family that may visit your place. That would be just plain wrong .
- and I don't enjoy it per se. not like I look forward to it. but it does not upset me either.
- Yes, I would at least let him know that you can see something that he might not be aware of. If he doesn't stop doing it, then he obviously enjoys it.
- you seem to enjoy the view-so whats the problem?
- You know what, if you don't like him, tell him straight up. In any tone you want. If you like him and he likes you back, you should ask him out. If he does, you go out, and get to know each other. If you do start dating, you can look at him dressing, and then joke and say hey, you wanna get dirty over there? And then he may take it real, or he may take it as a joke. (If he takes it real, make sure you dress sexy!)
- I think you have zero problem here. Let it go. This is the ultimate victimless situation.
Oh and just btw, good for you for being tolerant and broadminded. Our society would be enormously improved by more people with your attitude.
- I would make so many jokes.
Maybe everytime I saw him, call him up and invite him over for some sausage
- Of course you should say something…what if it was the other way around? You'd want your privacy, right? Anyway…you should tell him what you have told us…that you have noticed him nude when you happen to wash dishes, and you do not try to spy unnecessarily!
- Uh, stop looking at your neighbor unless you have an interest…
- As uziell said, curtains. If you don't have any, get some and keep them closed. Or get some blinds so that they will let light in, but block your view, hopefully.
- I think that you should warn him to behave himself decently since there are neighbours behind walls and if he does this intentionally then beware and try to avoid it
- relax and enjoy the show
- Just do your dishes naked. When he sees you, it may occur to him that if he can see you naked, you can see him naked.
- Do dishes at some other time or just enjoy
- Don't tell him you've seen him nude! No need to cause unneccessary shame. Just tell him his windows are a bee-line from yours when you're doing dishes, and let him make the connection. Tell him you're not nosy, but you can't help seeing into his house occasionally. That way he knows he needs to shut the blinds and be more aware.
If you want to respect his privacy, tell him. He might absolutely hate the idea of being caught naked unawares. I know I would. I prefer to be obvious about it.
- just put up curtains.
- Bah! You're cute. He knows what he's doing. Invite him to come over for dinner then have him help you wash the dishes. He'll notice the view in front of him.
- Im writing this naked. I think you enjoy the view so why end it. say nothing, do nothing, and be happy. I'm sure it makes you chuckle inside anyhow. Maybe you should ask him on a date then tell him if your going to do that at all. What if he brings a lady home and you see them having sex. How would this make you feel? Id go through a few possible scenarios in your head and see if you can deal with them, then adjust the situation accordingly.
- The more polite and tactful solutionwould be to show him what he is doing in a very subtle way, which would be for you to walk around nude when he can see into your apartment, then he will understand what he is doing.
- What should I do? I am not offended really. Would you say something to him? If so what? Is it wrong to just let it go and keep seeing him like that?
- not intrested in him. but he is not gross.
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- Can see neighbor in apt……..what to do?
The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My is high enough to look over the concrete privicy wall between the buildings. So when I do dishes ...
- Naked neighbor…..what to do?
The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the build...
- Name this Arnold Schwarzenegger Movie?
In the first Arnold is in some medication or unconcious he is half nude. And we see lot of women fully naked in a pool of water.. followed by a stunt.. thats comes to be the beginning .. I h...
- Can see neighbor in apt……..what to do?
The apartment building next to my house is only about 6 feet away from my kitchen window. My window over the sink is high enough to just look over the concrete privicy wall between the build...
- How can I prepare for a hot-tub party?
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