I've got a crush on this guy. He used to be my workmate. He's a natural flirt but sometimes he shows me he's body building photo ( Is he gay?) he's the first person I feel comfortable sharing problems with. there's definately a spark on my end but unsure if he's just friendly or feel special about me. Ive contacted him about three times. he said we should meet soon but never rang or contact me back. time past and I thought he wasn't interst …so I've lost contact with him until now. he messaged me today saying:

1. hello stranger! how r u doing? hows your health? Just want to say hello. Take care.
2. you can ask him out. go for it
3. What is this guy thinking? I don't know if I should contact him back? Is he just friendly or wanting something special? How can u tell if a guy is gay/bisexual?
4. you should definitely message him back. even if he's not interested in you in that way, he's sounds like a nice bloke and a good friend. if you want more to happen, though, then go for it. ask him to take you out for a drink and slip in the question "so, are you single then?" he'll get what answer you're after and if he's interested he'll make a move. if not, he'll tone down the flirting so you know. besides, what's the worst that could happen? a little rejection that would be forgotten in a week. go for it!
5. Clearly if he texted you he wants to see you so call him and get together with him. If you don't you'll wonder about it for the rest of your life.

   From your desciption he MIGHT be gay, he might not be. It is true that gay men are often the ones women go for because they are often the easiest to talk to.

   You find out if he's gay by asking him "Are you gay?" If he says yes than you can have his as friend. If he says no then you can make a move on him and if he says sod off then he wasn't worth knowing in the first place. You don't loose out either way.

6. just give him a call once and see how it goes… then you can ask here if nothing is happening
7. The only way you are going to find out is to ask him, but from what you wrote, I don't think he's interested in anything but friendship from you.
8. lol hes not gay. He was probly trying to impress u with the photo call him up and tell him how u feel. You would be suprised how guys react when the girls make the first move. As a guy I dont care when they do trust me
9. dude, take him out to a bar or some cosy place where there's a live band

   You'll know he's gay if he eyes the guys in the band and smiles too sweetly.

   If he's gay and taken then you'll just see him be friendly with men.

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